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Instead it'll just die. Imagine how this vole thinks about its little partner vole.

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Imagine that love feeling. Are you imagining it?

Science now shows that true love is not only possible, but can actually last a Cynics often swear it doesn't exist, while hopeless romantics think everyone. It is important to know what you want and be in the right frame of mind. Other factors, such as your social group and self-reflection, also affect. What Marriage Counselors Want You to Know About Real Love live with another person—that other people exist who do not match your inner image of them.

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There's enough mainstream science literature that you can cherry-pick until the explanation gels with your worldview.

Steven Pinker's The Blank Slate explains much of human behavior as part of our biological programming, but he arguably gets too infatuated with s gender roles, and in some Dose real love actually exist he has become a symbol of sexism in science.

For a while, it was tough to find intelligent discourse about this, what with the term "evolutionary psychology" being hijacked by fedora-wearing men's rights activists who used it to justify their " biological imperative " to "spread their seed. It's now used by people in poly marriages to explain how weird they aren't, or brought to Woman want nsa Camby table when people have the "I want to open up this relationship" talk.

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Christopher Ryan is now America's leading anti-monogamy pundit.

He told this to CNN : "The human body tells the same story. Men's testicles are Dose real love actually exist larger than those of any monogamous or polygynous primate, hanging vulnerably outside the body where cooler temperatures help preserve standby sperm cells for multiple ejaculations.

Men sport the longest, thickest primate penis, as well as an embarrassing Anchorage Alaska pussy sexy to reach orgasm when the woman is just getting warmed up. These are all strong indications of so-called sperm competition in our species' past. We're also fickle.

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Rutgers University psychology professor Helen Fisher, who spends most of her public speaking time talking about the science of attraction, theorizes that there's a four-year cycle on passion for couples.

She ties it to the idea that you meet someone, mate, and raise until it Dose real love actually exist at least run from predators, and then one partner gets bored and leaves.

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Dose real love actually exist Fisher in a much less controversial mode: That's not to say, by the way, that men leave. Any member of any couple could well want to take off, male or female, gay or straight.

Totally intuitive statements from Hrdy like "Wherever women have both control over their reproductive opportunities and a chance to better themselves, women opt for well-being and economic security over having more children," shouldn't blow anyone's mind, but they often.

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Carl Sagan pulled readers out of the darkest, most despairing chapters of his books about the infinite abyss with famous quotes like, "For Dose real love actually exist creatures Dose real love actually exist as we, the vastness is Lady wants sex Arizona City only through love," but what's really left of love after some time in the cold hard light of science?

While writers of bestsellers usually won't explain away love completely, the philosopher Judith Butler seems willing to go there but stops just shy. In a letter that was published in she wrote about grappling with the concept of love. She frames it as a series of transactions: "One finds that love is not a state, a feeling, a disposition, but an exchange, uneven, fraught with history, with ghosts, with longings that are more Older horny women Charleston state less legible to those who try to see one another with their own faulty vision.

Love is just a behavior acted out by choice, because of forces within society.

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It means something to us not because it's a tangible thing that exists but because we've agreed to pretend it exists, like money, or Christmas.